hello i had a miscarriage on febuary 7, 2007. i was only 4-5 weeks pregant. my husband and i have been trying to get pregant since june 2007. we have had no luck. i would like to get pregant soon cause he leaves soon. does anyone have any advice. thank you in advance.
T.,
Sometimes when we try to hard our bodies tense up and the energy is not where we really want it. try and relax, have a small glass of wine before trying again and get it out of your mind that you are trying and that he is leaving soon. too much stress can definitely change things.. go get a massage and try and have a stress free day. Good Luck!
T.
HI! I had a miscarriage about 1 month after you did- March 4,2007. I am now 21 weeks pregnant!! You have not been trying for that long so don't get discouraged!! The only advice I can give you is keep on trying!
Hi T.,
I went through years of the same trying to conceive. And finally I insisted that the American Doc. refer me off base to a doctor. She determined in a matter of only about 2 months that I just had a progesterone imbalance, causing me to miscarry every time (Because not enough progesterone means your uterus lining is not able to keep the baby). The FIRST time we tried and used the progesterone-I was pregnant!! I took it for 12 weeks to ensure I kept the baby...then everything was fine.
Just an idea.....you are probably not trying at the right of the month time either..you'd be surprised at how much sex you have to have to purposely get pregnant....if you can narrow it down to about 4-5 times a month to really go for it, it will help you and your hubby both relax a little about it. Try the basil body temp method (GOOGLE it to find out exactly how to do it). Right before your temp peaks that little bit during the month is the most fertile time....it will take you at least 2 months to figure out when that is...so for now, if you are trying to get pregnant right away, just try having sex every other or every third day all month long. Make it like a fun game--no stress, just lots of lovin'
After years and years of miscarriage and not having any children, I am 38 years old with a 2-year old, and trying for just one more :)
GOOD LUCK.
N. in Kaiserslautern
hello T.
My name is S. and I live in Weiden Germany. I have had 4 miscarriages, but I also have two beautiful children. All were early miscarriages after a lot of testing they could not find anything wrong. One thing I did is not make having a baby a job. I noticed that when i was putting pressure on myself and on my spouse it never worked out. so the first time we tried relaxing is when we got pregnant. Just remember that you got pregnant once beofre so you know that you are feritle. most people can't even get to that point. i also would say exercise and take care of yourself. Just know you are not alone. I wish you the best of luck.
S.
Hi T.,
I know this is a little late, but I am 25 and I had an ectopic pregnancy once. That means that my baby was growing in my tubes and they had to cut it out or I was going to bleed to death. My husband and I tried for a long time after that to get pregnant, but it wasn't until we stopped trying so hard, that we finally ended up with my wonderful son, who is now almost 3. Try to relax and not try so hard. My doctor told me that trying and being stressed are some of biggest reasons why we women don't get pregnant when we want to. You guys should take a vacation and try to relax and get your minds off of getting pregnant for that time, and enjoy each other's company. I bet if you did, you'd be pregnant in no time. Hope this helps! Have a beatiful, blessed day!!!
