A.J.
unless you want to keep staying in his room or bringing him to your bed, don't start! just tell him, "no, it's time to go to sleep now" and take him right back to bed. no conversation, no giving him "one more drink" or "one more song" or he will drag it out as long as you will let him! if you don't mind spanking, give him a little swat if he gets up and put him right back in bed. otherwise, it'll just take lots of trips back to his room for a week or 2 until he gets the idea that you're not going to give in. when he wakes in the early morning, make sure his diaper is clean, maybe offer him a small amount of water, then tell him "it's not morning yet, you have to stay in bed" and leave the room. he will probably cry and try to get up, but just be consistent and keep putting him back in bed, he will eventually fall back asleep! it might take a couple weeks of sleepless nights for you, but I've been through the same thing with both my kids and it WILL get better! I never wanted my kids to sleep with me (unless they are sick or something), so I was determined to keep them in their beds. they are now 4 and 2 and the only time they wake up at night is if the older one needs to go potty or the younger one needs a new diaper. good luck!