R.D.
GOOD FOR YOU for keeping such a level head about this, i think you're doing a terrific job with the way it's being handled. i dont think this is behavioral, and i dont think anything is medically wrong. it sounds like your son has just hit that point in boyhood when he realizes that it feels a whole lot better to rub on his pee pee than, say, his belly or other body parts. if he is not excessively whining or showing any negative signs of discomfort, i would continue handling it the way you are... because eventually, something else is going to come along and be even COOLER than playing with it, and when that distraction comes along, he's going to forget all about this for a while... with the pregnancy and your daughter, sounds like you've got other things to think about ;) if dad is around, you can always get him to talk to you son and explain that big boys dont do that in front of other people, and back you up on what you've been saying about doing it in his room. good luck!