L.M.
I was a month and half shy of delivering, was swelled up like a sausage feet, hands, face just what pregnant women do right they get fat and puffy. the Nurse practictioner took one look at me and told me we were going to the hospital.
I was on bed rest for 2 weeks while they monitored the protein levels in my urine. I had to practically stay on my left side.
they ended up inducing. and everthing was fine despite now having a preemie,
i accidentally got pregnant 9 mo later, and had no trouble at all with my DD's birth.
Dh when through quiet the time of being scared out of his witts though worrying about me.
sorry to hear of your friend! I can't answer why her Doc didn't catch it, it could be possible that it does just click on, but i don't know for sure.