Dear L.,
My heart is breaking for you and your family now. Soft tears are gently falling as I type this message.
This is the most sorrowful decision we animal lovers ever have to face, but when the time comes, we do it with love in our hearts and with our best friends' needs in mind. It is the most courageous and loving gift we can give them when their bodies have betrayed them so.
When is the right time? I am a firm believer that most of the time, our animals let us know in one unmistakable way or another. There comes a day when they have a look in their eyes that just says, "Please?" Sadly, we can't always schedule these things.
I am a pet loss grief volunteer at a wonderful web site. The site's main page is: http://www.rainbowsbridge.com there, you can make a residency for your beautiful girl where you can visit her whenever you want to, add to your memories of her whenever you want to, or write entries in her guest book.
The link to the Pet Loss forum at the site is under "Pet Loss Grief Support" on the first page after you enter the site. If you visit the forum, you'll see my posts under the name S. Squillions. I know the people there will offer unbelievable support and comfort to you and your family at this difficult time.
Please don't hesitate to send me a private message if you want some more poems, or stories to help your children through this heartbreaking chapter in their lives. I'm here for you whenever you need a shoulder to cry /lean on.
I leave you with a beautiful poem about making that decision on behalf of our animals who are living with terminal conditions.
MAY I GO NOW
May I go now?
Do you think the time is right?
May I say goodbye to painful days,
And endless lonely nights?
I've lived my life and done my best,
An example I tried to be.
So can I take the step
Beyond and set my spirit free?
I didn't want to go at first,
I fought with all my might.
But something seems to draw me now,
To a warm and loving light.
I want to go, I really do,
It's difficult to stay.
But I will try as best I can,
To live just one more day.
To give you time to care for me,
And share your loves and fears.
I know you’re sad and afraid,
I see it in your tears.
I'll not be far I promise that,
And hope you'll always know,
That my spirit will be close to you,
Wherever you may go.
Thank you so for loving me.
You know I love you too.
That's why it's hard to say goodbye,
And end this life with you.
So hold me now just one more time,
And let me hear you say.
Because you care so much for me,
You'll let me go today.