I have a 13yr old son with ADHD. He is a greart kid and no one can tell if he has ADHD or not. But when company comes over with there much younger kids he begins competioning with them. Even after me explain and drilling him before they come. I know that he loves babies and takes good care when he holds one. But why the attitude and aasks for things when there are other people in the house, or if we go somewhere. He never wants to leave the house, just wants to sit and play his computer and TV. Please help???
I am not familar with a lot of what ADHD ..... but for the little I do know, I don't see how your trying to see him having signs of it....what you have written really does not show ADHD. It seems there is jealousy issues and possibly he is very electronic driven which a lot of kids tend to be at that age and maybe needs to be monitored. Of coarse it can not hurt to seek advise in a counslor session..... I am a full supporter of that.
My grandson and granddaughter have both been diagnosed with ADHD. I've also done some reading about it. What you describe does NOT sound like ADHD.
Counseling can help you learn why he's acting this way and help you learn ways to manage his behavior.
If you feel you need to consult a counselor or a therapist, do so. I think what you are describing is a bit beyond what a forum can give you appropriate advice on, seeing as we do not know your son. I am not saying that to be unkind, but from your description, it seems that he may be employing some attention-getting behaviors when company comes, and that he's a bit immature-- and also that he's a bit of a couch potato. None of these traits in and of themselves would be a huge deal, but I think if you are feeling frustrated and want some extra help, do find it.
Good luck.
Sounds like a normal 13 yro. to me. Has nothing to do with ADHD. You just need to keep him busy when younger kids are in the house. You're lucky he loves babies, because most teen boys don't want to be bothered by babies or young ones. Maybe you can have him help entertain them, preferably in the same room as you. Wanting attention is normal too. My kid's not ADHD and he still looks for attention from me, usually when I'm busy. He just feels like he doesn't see enough of me and is used to having me around, just like your son. As for going somewhere....You've got to make it fun and have some give/take with him. You could let him bring along his hand held games or a camera. Teens get bored fast, and you don't want that.
If all he wants to do is sit and play ON his computer and WATCH TV, then he probably really like playing computer games and watching TV. If he COMPETES with other children that probably means he is competitive.
