I am a bit saddened. Pope Benedict XVI has done immense work to reach out to those of us who do consider ourselves to be Traditionalists, without caving into any of the fringe factions. If it weren't for his writings and clarifications, I'd be a schismatic who thought she were more Catholic than the pope, as I was back when I was 18.
The Church's decline in Mass attendance, vocations, etc are not the result of being too conservative, but were in direct correlation with the progressive changes of Vatican II (or the changes that were misinterpreted as being in the "spirit" of Vatican II). Under the conservative yolk of JPII and BXVI, vocations are once again growing, and we may have trimmed rolls, but most of those who go to Mass weekly are not lukewarm--they are on fire.
There is no reason to fear conservatism--we're not bad. We have strong principles and are willing to stand up for them, but we are also some of the most loving and compassionate people you will ever encounter, if you give us a chance.
@Dana K--time to read some actual scholarly research on Pope Pius XII--he was far from being "Hitler's Pope," as so unfairly and haphazardly accused. I've done my research and wrote papers on it during college, during the course of getting my History degree.
ETA: If you look at conservative factions in the church--the Institute of Christ the King, the Society of St John Cantius, The Fraternity of St. Peter, amongst others--their seminaries and priories are bursting at the seams--their confession lines are always long--their parishes are thriving. People WANT Tradition, they WANT to be held accountable for their choices--they WANT a sense of the sacred when they go to Mass. It is really quite beautiful to be a part of a parish where fidelity to the Magisterium draws the people in; makes us excited to participate in the parish life; bonds us together, and contributes to an ability to live a joyful life, even while following all those rules, those Commandments, those precepts and disciplines.
I don't know what types of "conservative" Catholics you encounter on an on-going basis (you're probaby thinking more of the schismatics, like the SSPXers--which I was when I was a child, until I moved to college), but I know the ones that I associate with. We have no problem with girls being altar servers or women as lectors or extraordinary ministers of the Eucharist, as long as it is always understood that the priesthood cannot be changed to allow women. No Pope has the authorty to change that.
Furthermore, healthcare for all is WONDERFUL, however, as we are seeing every day, government issued healthcare gives the government control over far too much--too much control over our religious instituations who are being ordered to violate their consciences--too much control over individual business owners who also have conscience rights--and we WILL be seeing death panels. (If you don't believe me on that, read Senator Tom Daschle's book on healthcare where he basically outlines the entire concept--after all, he was President Obama's original HHS pick, before his tax problems were revealed and Obama had to nominate Sebelius instead.)