First of all I'm not catholic, however, I did want to give my opinion. My uncle (dad' brother) married my aunt who has always been catholic and probably like your family. They are in their 50's. Anyway, about 8 years ago he left the Catholic church for the same reason. My uncle converted for his wife and was heavily involved in the Catholic church. Now, my uncle has went back to the Lutheran Church where he was raised as a child. My aunt told my grandma she would go with her husband but hardly does. My uncle is even an elder in the church and heavily involved. He goes every Sunday, usually without his wife. He went every Sunday with his wife when they went to the Catholic Church. My grandma thinks she doesn't go because her dad was so heavily involved in the Catholic church and she doesn't want to respect him while he's alive.
I'm a christian, I go to a non-denominational church, I believe in GOD. Church is a place were I can worship and get fed. I think you need to pray and ask God to direct your decision. There are a lot of great priest, pastors Rabi, leaders of faith. There are also some really bad ones out there who are very selfish and self seeking. We are all human and fall short of the glory of God. Does that make us not go to church? NO, it shouldn't, it reminds us we are sinners and just as the bible says, we need to ask for forgiveness. I think by the Catholic church hiding their sins, is wrong. I think that for any church who tries to hide their sins. What is done in the dark will be exposed in the light. God is the JUDGE, not us. That doesn't mean he didn't give us discernment.
I'm not telling you to leave the Catholic Church. But have you wrote your Pope, your Cardinals, your priest and let them, the Catholic Church know how you feel? That you don't want them to protect these sinful men, and to expose their sins so that the innocent children can be protected. The Catholic Church doesn't believe in abortion but they will support a priest who has molested children, many children??? I think you need to speak up to the leaders of the Church, you are part of the Catholic church, let them hear your voice. I do think they, Catholic Church, is making a lot of changes, and have started the healing process of ridding the church of these pedophiles.
Please pray to God for direction, he will answer you. I'm praying for you!