Hi XX........you sound so frustrated. I'm sorry.........this situation doesn't sound like what you signed up for when you said you wuld babysit to help his mom. You probably thought that this little boy would be an easy overnight "job".......he's not.......although he sounds like a normal 11 mo old to me, it's not something you were ready for.
The way I see it, you have 2 choices:
* You can adjust yourself to soothe the baby in the way he is accustomed to, by laying with him, as a mother would. This would make him fall asleep quicker and more secure, then you can continue your studying....
* Or, you can end your living arrangements and let the REAL mother deal with her own child, and you can carry on your school-life, yet only to find another job.
Although we don't have enough info on your situation, it almost sounds like the mother is home at night, yet you are the one caring for her son. Tha'ts weird to me, as usually a babysitter is hired to care for a child when the mother isn't around........so, that part I'm confused on.
In the end, it's all about the little boy.......he's innocent in the situation, so we need to find a solution that works for him, too.........but that's not your responsibilty........it is his mom's......
It sounds like you need to "soul search" to find out what you want to do with YOUR situation. the mother seems fine with the situation, but you're not.
You cannot make the mother change her ways, and you cannot make the child change his......you can only change your own life.......and how do you want to do that?
I truly wish you the best........
~N. :o)