C., my name is C., I know of a easy way to ease the pain. It worked wonders for my daughter and myself at the age of 20. Its called Hylands teething tablets, they disolve as soon as they touch saliva, so you don't have to worry about choking, unlike the "gels" that get into the sore gums and sting while it numbs the pain, the teething tablets don't sting at all and work very well, even on adults. It's a good way to help with the pain and fussiness of your little ones, if you decide to try them, put one or two in your mouth to see how quickly it desolves, you'll be amazed. I hope this helps even a little. C.