Best of luck to you. I know this can be a very stressful and upsetting time. I also took Clomid and it worked for me. I was told I should chart my temperature for a year before asking for help... this, after showing my ob/gyn my completely erratic charting of 3 months. I tried the Clomid (and I think progesterone) and I have 2 girls (3 and 5). I think the most important things I learned are:
1) Get an ob/gyn who genuinely cares about you, your health and your desire to conceive.
2) If you are charting your temperature, keep the thermometer on your nightstand and barely move to take it.
3) Try to find ways to relieve the stress! They say you get pregnant a lot easier after you have a child. Because your physical changes??? No, you also get pregnant easier when you adopt. It's because the stress goes down. You are too busy with the child to worry about your cycle and temperatures. I worried myself sick with the temperature taking because everyday I took it, it was in the wrong place. I was so upset and stressed and worried I wouldn't be able to conceive. I'm naturally an anxious person but when I felt like it was all on me and my physical problems... wow it sky rocketed. I went to bed stressed and woke up stressed, especially when every morning I woke up to taking my temperature and knowing it would be an upsetting thing.
Try to relax. I know that is so easy to say and hard to do. Just keep in mind, you need to have lots of things to divert your attention. Don't dwell on it all the time and keep your schedule busy. Work out to release tension and maybe start a new hobby. I think your mental health is just as important as your physical health.
I really do hope things work out for you. I hope you are able to get pregnant soon and you have a wonderful experience.
Good luck.
Liz