I didn't homeschool my son - so I can't give you help on the curriculum tat's best. But I did finally learn to help him with his work. He's also a kinesthetic learner - and initially homework was exhausting. Learning sight words and the the sounds of each letter in the alphabet looked to be a daunting task. But after research I learned to use his style to teach him. Instead of telling him to sit still, pay attention, put his paper in order on the table - I let him stand up while he worked. In between sight words he's run a loop around the kitchen-dining room, we'd practice the letter sounds in between throwing a ball back and forth. For multiplication tables he'd jump up and down while answering them. Clearly not something a teacher with 20 kids in a room can do!
I realized that the reason my son learns while he's in motion is because it takes all his concentration just to sit still. When he was freed up to move his brain could make the connections and learn.
Also, he did really well in pre-school becuase it was a Montessori school which focuses on multi-sensory learning. They touched and felt the letter and the corresponding letter-sound (L for lemon - they looked at and touched a L, then held a lemon while sounding out L).
I hope this helps. My son is now 13 and doing very well. He had been ranked as the very bottom of reading skills out of 80 1st graders - now he's right in the middle of the bell curve. He will never be the best reader in the group but he's good. He is an excellent mathemetician and very good as spacial skills like building and engineering so we nurture those strengths and encourage his growth in those areas.
Once you figure out how best to teach your son you'll feel as if a magic door has been unlocked or that someone turned on the light in a dark room. It will be awesome and he'll do wonderfully. How great that you can teach your son personally!
God bless you mama!