S.F.
Hi Krystal,
I hope your little guy's surgery has gone well. I had two strabismus surgeries- one when I was four and another when I was 20. If they can fix the crossed eyes early enough, your son may be able to fuse (use both eyes at the same time). If not, the brain shuts one image off at a time and he will see only from one eye at a time. I hope you will be able to- as I as mine was fixed too late and I did not get both eyes to work together. It has made sports involving a ball more than a little challenging. The surgery I had at 20 further corrected the muscles and was largely cosmetic. I had very bloodshot eyes for about a month and a little bruising around the eyes. The most painful part of the post-surgery for me was turning my head or anything where my eyes needed to move quickly. I had a little scar tissue on the white of my eye which lasted longer, but after a month or so, I think I was back to normal. I had my last surgery at the Jules Stein Eye Clinic in LA. If he needs further surgery, I would highly recommend going there- even if just for another opinion.
I hope this helps,
S.