C.S.
Hello, While I was reading your request, your life sounds almost identical to mine! I have 2 step daughters as well, just 10 and 7, we just got full custody of, but the situation sounds so similar. I am 28, and I have a 7, 2 and almost 1 year old. My 2 youngest are 13 months apart, so as you know, dealing with the older kids adn their uncooporation about homework, adn then dealing with the babies is almost a nightmare. I am extatic that I'm not the only one. I almost feel like finally! Someone else who sees what I'm going through! My oldest stepdaughter, who is 10 and in 4th grade, she can't even add without counting on her fingers, just basic 1-10 addition, which seems wrong to me. Anyway, she also gives excuses, tries to lie and say, oh, we don't have to do 11-15, so, she's gotten away with it for awhile, but now we are onto her, and it is really upsetting. I mean, you can only do so much. She is awesome in reading and art, but when it comes to using the other side of her brain, for math and science, not interested. I'm in this with you, It is so hard for us, b/c we want them to do well, and it's so hard to help them while we still have to do the traditional things, cook, blahlblahblah.
Well, I'm thinking maybe a tutor, but who can afford this? I wonder if the school could provide one? You are not the only one. Maybe if we tell the teacher our struggles she can suggest something?
Just curious, are you in the McHenry area? It's so nice to know that there are more people in the world dealing with these issues. Actually I started counseling for stress management, b/c, I sometimes feel like I just cannot handle this anymore. And being pregnant, is it stressful?
Good luck, please keep me posted, it would be great if we could email eachother I have so much more I'd love to share with you, ie husband,mom issues, their mother is just like that, won't communicate
Bye for now,
C.
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