L.L.
My son is 3 and is very hyperactive. I can not go anywhere w/ him w/o some kind of drama unfolding. He also has a severe speech delay which the speech therapy has helped so... much.
I do not have him on any medications, while they are still so.. little their bodies are growing. I have him on strict routine and EVERY BEHAVIOR that is NOT a positive one, the same consequence happens. Time outs used to be a joke, seeing he would never sit; however once he learned that if he could not sit, he would get one(very hard) swat, then have to sit back down. His time outs would not start until he was sitting up and quiet. Kids that age do not understand the concept of 3mintues or 5 more minutes, so I would say "we will be for a long time" "a very long, long time". They have begun to work, he is still very hyper and swats for very, very, unacceptable (like running in the road as he is very impulsive as well) behavior.
It took 4months of the same thing EVERY TIME. Very exhausting I must say.
but my friends do have their 3yr. olds on some medications. such as:
risperdall
adderall
ritalin
these seem to help their kids.
Best of luck to you. I know how exhausting it can be.
Faithful Reader