T.B.
I was going to say the same thing as Cherrie C. Don't pick her up and don't talk to her. Just pat her to let her know you're still there and leave--and every time make it a little longer before you go back in there. I have also seen the Super Nanny technique and would def. give that a try but also from the show...don't give in and pick her up just once or you have to start all over. I have three kids and one thing that helped them all at some point was to play a radio/cd softly. For one it helped cover the little noises in normal daily activity but I had also read that when they wake up in the middle of the night and the house is silent they get scared because they think they may be alone. We've done lullaby cds and books on tape, etc. but I always put it on as I went out their room and it helped them know it was bedtime soothe them to sleep. I know it doesn't feel like it when you're exhausted but it will get better! Good luck! :)