M.S.
Hi Andrea,
First of all, let me say that it does not matter if you are married, divorced, a single mom by choice or accident, all children should be supported by BOTH parents and it's a shame that our society makes it acceptable for a man to help a woman conceive, but if he should be asked to add financially, which IS his job also my goodness,it's the end of the world. Give your daughter time, she will come around and if she doesn't,just keep the lines of communication open for her. I'm sure you asked the question about child support to her to probably prepare her for whatever reaction it might bring to the situation, not because you are selfish. If you are in CA,and if you have full physical custody on paper,, then legaly she has to come home. No matter what age children are, unless they are 18 in CA the courts orders are what stand ground. I've got legal representation for my C.S issues and custody in CA, and thats what my attorney told me about the "age" when kids can decide who and where they want to live. Good luck to you, and try not to be so hard on yourself. You have been very UNSELFISH these past 17 years.