Kristi:
Hello! Coming from a person who has been there and done that - pay off the credit card first and NEVER use it again. My husband are debt free (with the exception of our mortgage) and do everything via cash (debit card).
Keep in mind - when using a credit card means you really can't afford it. So you buy something you REALLY WANT and pay $195 for it on the credit card - if you make your minimum payments each month - it will take you 3 years to pay off that $195 and cost you $554.56 - was it worth $500? (take $195 multiplied by 7.9% = 15.41 (for one month) multiplied by 12 (184.92) by 3 years 556.56 - that's just the simple math and doesn't include anything else you put on the credit card.
I can't tell you how hard it was to NOT use credit cards and going to CASH ONLY - but it was the best move we made. I took us 1.5 years to pay off our credit card debt and we made a HUGE life change in doing that. I took stock of what we had that we didn't use and had a yard sale (several really) and made $1,000 that paid off a credit card. Then I went looking further and realized all the stuff we don't use on a monthly basis and sold it on ebay - if it didn't sell, I donated it to charity. Got rid of excess - it's the keeping up the Jones' or even all the media explotation of NEEDING more - bigger TVs, newer cars, etc. When you get back to basics, you realize all that you really need and want.
The truck is a stable payment - it won't change. It will be the same over the term of the loan. As long as you don't fall behind, you won't lose anything. You plan on keeping the truck so really - use the money on the thing that can ruin a family faster than anything else - credit cards.
If you have enough money to pay off the credit card - I will assume that you already did your taxes and are receiving a refund.
Seriously consider going to a cash only basis. I can't tell you it will be easy or fun. But really, a year from now - you will be in a new boat and won't want to go back. Use coupons to save additional money - make weekly menus to help you save money in grocery shopping.
Make a conscious decision to take charge of your life - instead of spending $40 to go to a movie - wait for it to come out and rent it instead. Need a date? Find a babysitting co-op. Or trade with a friend - we have a friend's son over and they take our boys too.
When shopping - if you are going to put it on a credit card - ask yourself "how much is this really going to cost me?" And "is it worth it?" If you are not going to pay your credit card(s) off every month, then anything you purchase now will cost you more in the long run. Don't think for the moment - think for the future too.
If your husband lost his job - what would your family do? If you don't have credit card debt, you would have a savings account and not have to stress too much.
Since you enjoy crafts - maybe some of the stuff you make could be sold on ebay. That would bring extra money in to the house as well.
I know this is long. It's such a hard decision to go to cash only - especially if you've been using credit cards a long time (I'm 42 and got my first credit card at 18 and at one point had over $60K in credit card debt with NOTHING to show for it. The clothes, shoes and meals weren't worth what I had eventually paid for them - even the electronic stuff - not worth what I ended up paying for them.
Take good care. Know you are not alone. Make the right decision for you and your family's future, not just the here and now.
Best regards,
Cheryl