I am a supporter of the American Cancer Society Relay for Life program. We are fairly new to a very small town and I have not met many people at all. The Relay for Life is coming up and I want to join one of the teams. My 5 year old and I spend alot of time reading and playing in the library at the elementary here (she is not enrolled yet). I noticed that this school (pre-k and K) have formed 2 teams for the event and they are not full yet. I was thinking of asking the ladies in the office about their teams and if I could join them. I thought this particular group would have women around my ages and since my DD will be attending there next year I could meet some of the teachers. Should I invite myself? I dont want them to accept me out of pity but I really do not know anyone else here. I can go to the meetings and get matched with a group by the organizer but I want to know Im getting with a group that maybe I can form some friendships with. What do you think? Should I go for it? Im so excited about this event coming up and I dont want to miss out. Thanks moms!
I think any Relay for Life would welcome new members. Just approach someone and ask what it's about (even though you already know) and ask if they are looking for members!
I would say go for it. What a great way to meet new people. Let them know you are new in town and would love to join them if they have an opening. I can't imagine people saying no. If they do, you don't really want to be a part of their group anyway, right?
Sounds like a great way to meet some new people! I think they would be delighted to have someone else join up for their team.
Go for it. Ask them and also contact the local cancer office. This way you have double chances of being with some nice people and making new friendships.
Thank you for participating in the Relay for Life.
The other S.
Cancer survivor 13 years and counting.
what is the worst that could happen? Don't let fear run your life. Take the risk and reap the rewards!
My best friend became good friends with a woman who invited herself to join my friend's team that walked 60 miles in 3 days. I think you should take the chance. It is not the same thing as inviting yourself to a party. It is for charity.
I would ask, and explain to them what you just explained here. You are new and would like to join a team but don't really know many people. I'm sure they would be glad to have you.
Sure, I think you should ask to join up with them. Sounds like a great opportunity. Go for it! :-)
I would ask to join the group. I don't see why they wouldn't let you join.
Why not, I say ask the ladies. It is something you want to do and is excited about.
I think you should definitely go for it. Tell them you have a passion for the cause and really want to be on the team. Who could say no to that??? Good luck!
M
Why not? The worst that will happen is they say no. Walk your buns off! LOL!
If the teams aren't full yet, and they're posted, they're usually LOOKING for other people to join.
Asking if you can join a team looking for new members isn't inviting yourself. It's asking if you can join in or if it's just for school employees.
You should tell the ladies that you are inerested in participating in the Relay For Life and asking if the need another team member. If that doesn't work, go to the meeting and join another group. You would still have the opportunity to interact w/ members of this particular team even if you were on a different team.
Do it! It sounds like a great way to introduce yourself and find some friends. If they say no, then go with plan B and dont take it personally. Just say excuse me to the ladies and tell them what you said here.
Absolutely, but maybe be less than aggressive about it. For example, "If your group is looking for another participant, feel free to call me." I would like to think/hope they will welcome you with open arms. But, if they are the snooty type, they can't call you pushy.
Absolutely. I am sure they would welcome another team member as they have to collect a designated amount of money in order to participate. Great way to meet people for your daughters new school. Good luck. I have two friends in Ontario Canada who enjoyed every minute of the walk.
L.
It can't hurt to ask, especially if the teams are not full yet. After all it's a charity event I'm sure they would welcome you!
People in small towns have friendships that have been formed for years. They forget new people in town might need a friend!! Don't take it personally.
DEFINITELY join the school team!!
I think that the ladies in the office would be glad to be asked! Relay for Life can not ever have too many supporters! Bless you for your continued participation in RFL!
It can't hurt to ask in the office what the guidelines are for joining a team. Tell them you're interested, will certainly join next year when your daughter is enrolled, and that you would be happy to fill an open spot this year. No one will perceive this as a pity issue! It sounds like a way to find friends and stay active in your new town.
Another vote for YES! :o)
Yes! Go for it! They will be very glad to have you!
Don't worry, they won't be accepting you out of pity, it will be with pure joy. I hope you make lots of new friends.
YES!!! They will be happy to have you!
I know people who are involved in Relay for Life every year. Some donate quilts for auction, etc. I always buy luminarias for loved ones I've lost.
They are so happy to have people help.
You will be more than welcome, I'm sure!
