J.G.
I try to keep mine home when they have colds... mainly cause I can't stand passing on the germs. But also because it bothers me when mine are exposed to others who just don't want to keep theirs home. You see I have 3 with ashma & when they get colds it means that they may end up in the ER if momma can't keep them under control at home with inhalers or the nebulizer - so any cold for us can end up a hospital visit or stay! And I don't want to be selfish and put any other parent through what I go through here - just because being home in the winter is hard on me or them.
So, yes - taking her out to somewhere you know will be a bunch of kids and esposing all of them to what ever you daughter has would be selfish!