Sex Drive - Marietta,GA

Updated on August 14, 2010
R.J. asks from Marietta, GA
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i wan to know how can i boost my sex drive my husband and i have 5 kids and after my last baby who is 4 years old now, it has went down hill. I just turned 31 and i feel like i am to young for this, it has been going on for the pass 4 years........HELP PLEASE!!!!!! any body!! P.S all the kids are in school now so i have time to relax while he is @ work and they ____@____.com there any over the counter vitamin(natural or herbal) that i can take?

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J.I.

answers from Harrisburg on

You need some time to yourself! 5 kids? How do you have any time to relax and even think about sex or enjoy your sexuality? I have one child and have trouble with this. I don't know your situation, but maybe get a babysitter and just spend time with your husband, no pressure for sex but just trying to reconnect? When you feel close to each other I imagine the sex part comes naturally. Good luck!

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C.P.

answers from Provo on

After we have babies it messes with our hormones. I have only had 3 kids and I needed a boost in some of my levels. Exercise helps too.

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M.S.

answers from Macon on

2 words MACA ROOT.... It is a vitamin they sell at walmart.... called horny goat weed . says take 3 in morning and 3 at night but in my opinion that is to much... I could not contain myself. but it is aunatural . so give it a go cant hurt!

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E.G.

answers from Atlanta on

i believe it is vitamin b6 that might help...but, i would talk to your dr about this..it could be that you have low progesterone levels..i lost my mojo about 2 years ago after the birth of our 2nd child..i went to my ob for a regular yearly check-up and mentioned this to him..he said that he hears about this alot of the time, and said the kids were a problem and have a date night with him..we did and ended up getting pregnant. unforunately, we lost the baby 2 days ago, and one of the reasons was having low progesterone levels, even though they put me on prometrium, it was a little too late.
but, i did do some reading up on it, and other symptoms include hair loss and low sex drive, and others..
its worth looking to

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K.D.

answers from Dallas on

I second the exercise thing its soooo true that it helps!!

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D.B.

answers from Charlotte on

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M.C.

answers from Charleston on

I've kind of been having the same problem. I think it may be somewhat a difference of men vs women as we get older. Men are ready in an instant and women are slow burners. Try to do somethings to help you get the fire started early in the day. Before your husband goes to work, try to get a couple passionate kisses in (not leading to anything) to ignite your fire. Try to think about him and those kisses during the day. Greet him with a passionate kiss. Try to catch and hold his eye. Do anything you can to keep a connection and your fire burning until the time is free.

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K.M.

answers from Detroit on

R.,
Arbonne has a NATURAL Balancing Cream that has helped so many of my clients with this issue. It also helped me with Migraine Headaches and irregular cycle as well as a few other issues. I completely trust Arbonne and all of the products they are made with only Natural Herbs and Botanicals and are never tested on animal and Do Not contain any animal products or by products. I have 2 daughters about your age and they both swear by this cream too. Private message me for more information including my web site and email address.
Kay

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S.H.

answers from Honolulu on

Maybe have a lunch tryst???

But seriously... maybe ask your OB/GYN.... I am sure they deal with this all the time....

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P.S.

answers from Macon on

R.:
I take vitamins from a company that makes everything with natural ingredients. The vitamins give my husband and myself soooo much energy. Contact me to learn more about the vitamins and other natural products.

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