A.M.
Hello E.
Sadly there are very few peds to choose from here. I am interested in watching this post and seeing what info you get, if any. I'll give you my 2 cents.
I totally understand your predicament. I too am willing to drive an hour or more for certain things. My last pregnancy I drove all the way to SLO, because I wanted a VBAC that bad. But with a childs pediatrician, I dont think I would be willing to drive an hour with a sick kid, or worse baby. We have had too many to count last minute visits, late night phone calls, even a recent 2 am CT Scan. It has been very convenient to have our dr. relitively close by.
We see Dr. Howe. He was my husbands ped. as a child. But mainly the reason we chose him is because that was who the NICU recommended. My twin boys were born at 28 weeks, weighing 2 1/2 lbs., spent 2 months in the NICU and only came home weighing 5 lbs. I was not going to just choose anyone. Saunders and Howe are pretty different in their approaches, philosophies and people/kid skills. I suggest you meet them first and lay it out on the table. Discuss up front your concerns about your philosophies and theirs and how best you could work together. Remember this is YOUR baby, and you make the decisions. No matter which ped you choose, keep that in mind given that you may have conflicting philosophies with him/her.
I have had to stand my ground with regards to vaccinations and it was nerve wracking at first, now he just asks me if I am ready to do some and when I say no he pretty much leaves it at that. He is a very intelligent man/doctor and sometimes I feel he talks in too much technical speak for me--or over my head! He is great with the kids tho, very gentle and caring. He isnt perfect tho, and I dont think any dr. is. But, he missed thrush, even tho I knew it was. He told me it was curdled breastmilk, only to come back a week later with it still there and then he agreed it was. I do know he discourages circumcision. And Barbie and Colleen are great!
I grew up with Kaiser, so having this kind of small town doc/office is really appealing to me. I can almost drop in, they leave their cel phone numbers for after hours and I dont have to worry about parking (like SB). Trust me, I have had my share of dr. visits down there with my boys after they came home and what a pain and stressful situation that is (the crying, the timing of feedings) not to mention the sress of driving the dangerous pass (154) with such precious cargo. Good luck to you!