J.C.
Try Giselle's Chateau:
http://giselleschateau.com/page/15kal/Home.html
I had my daughter's 4th birthday party thru them. They used to have a store front in downtown Montgomery, but closed and now they are 'on wheels' and will bring the party to you, wherever you want. We have a small home, so I wanted to have the party outside of my home anyway, so the owner was just starting to team us with Alex's Toy Box in Mason Square/Oswego and we had the party right in the toy store. It was magnificent. We were her first party in the store (August 2007), so you may want to inquire with her about it and if she is still doing that. She does all kinds of parties, but princess and tea parties for the girls, even spa parties. Knight & Pirate parties for the boys!
Prices include everything: custom invitations (which were ADORABLE)dressup dresses, makeup, nails, lip gloss, cupcakes, drinks, goodie bag + crown for all guests and something special for the birthday girl, keepsake picture, craft, balloon bouquet, game.....check out the website! Oh and beautiful little glass plates, chair covers with floral tie backs, cloth napkins with rings, floral centerpiece etc. for the royal princess and her court.
Oh and Alex's Toy Box gave us a $5 gift certificate too, so my daughter was able to pick something special out for the toy store when the party was over.
I have some great pictures if you want me to email them to you separately. Let me know. Otherwise, the website had some too.
Good luck!
J. C. / Oswego