B.B.
I have actually been in your shoes. I was married for about two years, but with my ex for 4 years. I was verbally and physically abused by an alcoholic husband. His family even made my life hell. I am 24 and a single mom of 2 kids. I left him in Pennsylvania a little over a year ago and have been divorced since August. My daughter is 2 and son is 9 months. I understand that your daughter is behaving in a rough manner, but hang in there. My daughter did the same after we split. They are just exerting behavior that they saw in the home. Sometimes it is just that toddler thing. I know your daughter is not 2 yet, but it can start earlier. You just need to discipline her and try to let her know who is boss. If you need to talk, I am always available. Things will get better, I promise.
You may call me if you like at ###-###-####.
Sincerely,
B. B