Believe me, I understand! I nursed my son and now I am nursing my 6 mo old. Time alone is rare...and much needed. I think that you should (maybe you already have) sit down with your hubby and explain to him that you need time alone. Use "I statements" and explain that you cannot be an effective mother and wife if you do not have a few minutes to yourself from time to time. Here are a few other things that might help. Ask your husband for a break well in advance (maybe a week), and remind him a few times throughout the week. This way you both can prepare for the trip. As far as your prep work...set out diapers, wipes, extra clothes, etc in clear view. Have snacks prepared as well as an easy lunch for hubby to prepare (something simple, not messy, that the kids will eat without fuss). When the glorious day comes explain to him where the essencials are, the menu and snacks, and how long you will be out. I know this sounds like a lot of work for you when you are already busy, but you will be rewarded with a wonderful, worry-free break. Also, make time to go out with your hubby. I am sure that he misses time alone with you. I have occationally allowed myself to completely neglect my hubby. It doesn't go well. Another idea, neglect the dishes and laundry and take 15 minutes to read a magazine article or something. Just a few minutes at a time might help. I hope this helps. A.