Hi J.,
It's awesome that you have put your focus on raising your daughter instead focusing on dating. Family is just as important as finding a soul mate. Yes, you're right, dating isn't as safe as it was years ago, but I must say that with faith all things are possible. First, it's okay to want to date again and to have that special person in your life. First, I believe one should be complete before considering to date. When a person is complete, he or she has confidence in self, true and doesn’t boast or brag, has the ability to love and trust, has a heart of compassion, finances are in order, and know what they want out of life and a relationship. I know that’s a lot to ponder, but if you’re seeking the same, don’t you feel it’s only fair to give the same? You’re to be a help not a hinder and from what I understand, you want a good man who is faithful and true. That's a good thing but most importantly pray for a mate and while you are waiting, be true to who you are, showing love and always have a kind word to say because you never know who might be checking you out.
Stick to you morals and values and don't change. If you don't want to internet date then don't. I your heart say it's not good then don't let others persuade you to change because they've found it to be good for them. I believe if you're consistent and persistent in what you want, don't stop believing for the ideal person you want. Good men are out there, but you must be patient and true love will come.
"Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour of the Lord." (Proverbs 18:22)
I hope that I've been a help to you.
Be Blessed!
M.