Hi K., I am a mother of 2, one of which is a 4 year old. I am responding to you because I constantly find myself in the same boat... looking for anything to enhance my child constructively (in this highly competitive world, lord knows she'll need it). I live in New Tampa and was doing some research just today on the different options and types of schools available to her however my other child is only 7 weeks old so I am a stay at home mom not able to meet the monetary means of such education/activities. There is a school here in New Tampa called Primrose that does seem to offer a curriculum for her age that is structured but costly. I believe it runs about 200 a week. One other school, Ellen Meade in Bradenton had me wishing I lived closer to them,; in the toddlers schedule, it included etiquette training and dance several times a week. Whatever you choose, I hope it to be the best for your daughter and you;)