B.J.
Hi B., I am also sailing on the same boat. I am due in August though. Its my 2nd baby and I understand how exhaustive it is with first one. What I do is to finish off my cooking once in a day. Then I have set up time for cartoon, craft work, painting, writing practice, where I do not sit and participate. I simply ask her to do something for half and hour in that gap I try taking rest on couch or watch some programs. I have also made it a rule for her that she will not call me in between, she needs to finish and then show me what so ever activity she is involved in. It takes some time but then they themselves start telling us, not to interfere in between. Try it out. Ofcourse a long span of resting period is impossible with second baby, but atleast we can steal some time for ourselves.