Even if you HATE Twilight... go rent it. It's one of the VERY FEW movies/media that gets our weather right. Drizzly, damp, sloppy. During the few days the sun comes out from Oct-May EVERYONE pours outside.
White skies. Even during the 2 months we have KIND OF sunny weather, you won't see blue skies more than a few days a year. They're PALE blue. Pastel. During the other 10 months? They're WHITE to grey. From horizon to horizon (although DO realize, Seattle is in a forest... the furthest you can look in MOST directions is about 500 feet because of the hills and trees).
It RARELY rains here. We have SEVERAL names for the 'not quite rain' that happens (drizzling, misting, etc.). ALMOST NO ONE OWNS UMBRELLAS. Why? Because the 'rain' is usually too light to fall straight down. It blows around. So umbrellas are pointless. You're going to get wet. Not soaked, just uncomfortably damp. You know the 'grunge' look? It's NOT a fashion statement. Our hair is clean, it's just damp. We wear layers to fight off the fact that the top layer is going to be clammy. Water soaks up from the bottom of our pants. There are few sidewalks WITHOUT giant holes and cracks (when sidewalks exist at all... the only 'real' sidewalks are on the east side).
WE DON'T HAVE NEIGHBORHOODS!!! Nearly all the housing is on 30mph-45mph streets. And cars use them. A "not busy" street is 25mph with cars about 1 per 5 minutes. You can't let your kids ride bikes out on the streets. There are almost NO culdesacs or dead end streets.
NO ONE PLAYS OUTSIDE WHEN IT'S RAINING.
LOL... people moving here often think we spend $500 per year on gortex for our kids and send them to the park. NOPE! Our parks are empty about 10 months a year. So get used to spending a LOT of time inside with your kids. There are a lot of indoor play places for toddlers, but after that age it's pay-to-play indoor sports and classes, or arranged playdates inside someone's home. ((Also, most places in the country ADULTS spend a lot of time outside... you get to know your neighbors and your kids play outside with other kids on the street. THAT DOESN'T HAPPEN HERE. You dash from warm dry house, to cold dry car, to warm dry PLACE. PLAYDATES RULE. People aren't "unfriendly"... it's just that we rarely MEET people / have time to chat))
Our "2 months" of good weather? Well, it's not solid. The way our seasons work is like this:
Oct-May 50 degrees & 'raining' MOST days
Aug & Sept are our "summer" (70's usually)
June is iffy. Always.
ANY DAY in June-Sept CAN BE 50 degrees and raining. (Usually at least once or twice a week TWO WEEKS OF SUN MAKES THE NEWS! Any time it gets into the 80's it makes the news. People start dying in the 90's -no air conditioning.)
July 4th is our "memorial day" when people can count on moderately decent weather at least half the time, and when most people break out their grills.
Sinus infections. We've all got em. ((We have more mold here than anywhere else in the world, including the 3 largest rainforests COMBINED. We also have the highest incidence of MS. Lots of research is going into WHY. Mold is pretty high on the list of possible reasons. You see billboards with "Is it in the air?" Help fund MS research, and "Is it in the water?" Help fund MS research. "Is it in the mud?" Help fund MS research. It's HUMID almost all the time (80-90+% humidity) it's just COLD and humid. Anyone with arthritis or bad joints just suffers.))
Summer nights are nice (unless you have young children to get to bed). It doesn't get dark until 10pm (and the sun is up at 4am)
Winter... it's dark by 4pm (and doesn't get light until 730 am... meaning for those who work, they often leave for home in the dark, and come home in the dark. SCHOOLS RUN FROM 8AM-4PM... so ditto for your kids)
Your friends aren't exaggerating. GREY & DRIZZLY. Almost all year long. Is a bit of an understatement.
Oh. And that seafood? YES we live where salmon is caught and Dungeness is just a few hours drive away, as are oysters, clams, etc. And we SUBSIDIZE the rest of the country. Salmon is often $20 PER pound. And lunch meat? (we're talking turkey and ham and stuff) is $12 PER pound. Milk is $4 per HALF gallon. It's VERY VERY expensive to eat up here. For a family of 3 the poverty line is at 44k per year. 100k per year is LOWER middle class. (To get a 2 bedroom house for under half a million, you have to head out 30-60 minutes outside of the city. There is NO public transportation to speak of. STUDENT housing (college) is $1600 per month.