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Infinity, the unscented ones (not Radiance) are soft and absorbent. They are sold by Always. They do make a couple of options that do not have wings but do have the Infinity layers. You might also try their ultra thins. I have tried a number of options over the years and I think they are the best, and prefer Always over any other brand in general. You might also consider absorbent underwear (like Dear Kate) if you choose not to have wings. If you are petite, consider pads aimed at teens.