Remember Me???? SH?? How's It Going?

Updated on January 15, 2015
S.H. asks from Kailua, HI
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Hi all.
Do you remember me? That is my question for question sake.

I have not been on here in a real long time.
Things are still not good.
The trouble is not my Hubby or kids.
But things have morphed into a real bad scene... from a literally nuts Mom, and from my kids' Aunty, who is a toxic heap of hell.
So with all of the heap of trouble they are causing us, things are not good.
It is unexplainable and would take a 500 page book to explain it all.
One incident was my kids' Aunty attacked one of my children... we had to get a restraining order & Attorney etc. and that is just one small problem of the whole bees wax.

I dearly appreciate all of your good wishes... a couple of you told me about the post about me.
For some odd reason today I logged on here today.
But yes, I am not online here much anymore. Too much going on.
But please all pray or send good wishes.... me and my Husband and kids need it.
Thank you all :)

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T.N.

answers from Albany on

Grrr, I already told you I'd be happy to come and take down those crazy people for you, for just one ticket to Hawaii, but you never listen!

Good to hear from you, we've been worried.

:)

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L.A.

answers from Austin on

I have been thinking of you. I am sending you strength. If you ever need a get away, we now have a new home with plenty of room.

Hang in there. L.

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R.B.

answers from San Francisco on

Yes, I posted recently, wondering where you were. Glad to hear hubby and kids are okay. :) We miss you!

Restraining order?

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H.W.

answers from Portland on

In the spirit of Aloha-- SH, you are always family here.
Reach out if and when you want support. I pray that you will have strong, generous people in your life who will provide moral support, comfort and strength during this time for you, your children and your husband.

It's always so hard when close family turns on us. It sounds like you are being careful and thoughtful about this.

Hugs to you, wishes for peace of mind, meaningful and pleasant times with your children. Maybe you could visit the Mainland for spring break or a small vacation-- see something new and get your mind off things? San Francisco is pretty and fun....(daydreaming out loud for you...)
xoxo H.

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T.F.

answers from Dallas on

I have thought about you often. My thoughts and prayers will be that you and your family find peace with your situation and hopefully, the next time we hear from you, your burdens will be lifted or at least much easier to deal with.

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D..

answers from Miami on

Ah sweetie, we're glad to hear from you but very sad about your news. How your husband ended up straightening himself out, I don't know, but am relieved for you. Very sorry that other family members have entered the crazy zone and are making your lives hell.

Just know that your longtime MP friends are rooting for you. Sending you virtual hugs...

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W.W.

answers from Washington DC on

ALOHA!!!!!!

Hey Lady!!! You are in my thoughts and prayers!!!

Maybe move to the mainland to escape the drama??? I know it would be hard to leave Hawaii...but might help!!

May you have good ohana!!! Me ka `oia`i`o - W. W.

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M.P.

answers from Portland on

I'm so glad you've posted. Several of us have hoped to hear from you. I'm glad you're well and sorry you're having so much difficulty. Here are good wishes and I will pray. You are special.

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J.B.

answers from Boston on

I've missed you and have been wondering how you are. Thanks for checking in, it's good to know that you're OK. Sending you prayers that whatever the situation is gets resolved and that you get the peace and security in your life that we all need!

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T.R.

answers from Milwaukee on

S.H. - so glad you came & let us know how you are doing. While there is not anything we can physically do to help your situation, know that you are in all our thoughts & prayers.

I hope that things get better, so that you can feel peace in your life. T.

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M.B.

answers from Austin on

Yes, many of us remember you.....

I'm sorry things are going so badly for you right now..... it is hard to put up boundaries between your family and toxic relatives.

Do what you need to do to protect your family from bad influences.

Hugs and prayers for you!

Stop in from time to time and let us know how things are going!

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❤.M.

answers from Los Angeles on

I do remember you.

I'm so sorry for all you are going through. I am sending you good wishes
and will pray for you & your family.

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F.W.

answers from Danville on

So glad to hear from you, and to hear that things are OK with your kids and husband.

Sorry to hear about the crazy aunt!

I hope that you will feel free to come here to vent. We miss you.

Sending healing thoughts and prayers!

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C.V.

answers from Columbia on

S.H.! We miss you!

I'm sorry there's so much trouble going on in your life, darling. Don't be afraid to oust all those toxic emotional terrorists. "Ain't nobody got time fo' that!"

Blessings of love and hugs to you, HEAPS of blessings.

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S.T.

answers from Washington DC on

oh, sweetie, i'm so sorry to hear things are still wonky for you. i SO want you to have a relaxed and happy life!
of course i remember you. i wish you had a little chill time so you could come back to us. thanks so much for checking in!
:) khairete
S.

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J.B.

answers from Houston on

I remember you. Keep your head up, things will get better.

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A.M.

answers from Phoenix on

Glad to hear from you, and so sorry to hear you are still having a rough time with your family. Best wishes for things to get better from here!!

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S.S.

answers from Chicago on

So sorry for the problems. Happy to know you are alright! HUGG

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M.S.

answers from Oklahoma City on

So glad you logged in! Sending ((Hugs))) and prayers your way!

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A.A.

answers from Denver on

Best wishes! I'm pretty new so I don't remember much of anyone, but sending good thoughts to you and yours.

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K.M.

answers from Kansas City on

So good to hear from you!!

I am just so sorry to see that things are not going well- please know that we are all here for you and we hope that things begin to come around for you soon... sending many, many prayers of strength for you and your family.

We miss you! ((hug)) Take care and check in again when you can!

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A.L.

answers from Atlanta on

Funny, someone asked about you very recently, so it is great to see your post. Sorry that extended relatives are behaving crazily! That is just too hard. It is good that you are doing what's needed to take care of yourselves, and know that many people are wishing you well, hoping you have the strength and wisdom to keep doing the next right thing. Sending lots of prayers and good thoughts! This too shall pass.

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S.D.

answers from Davenport on

Prayers are with you! Your mamapedia family wishes you well & a resolution to the craziness that is going on right now.

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K.F.

answers from New York on

Thanks for thinking of us as we were thinking of you.

DON'T FEED THE CRAZY.

Seriously, don't feed into or entertain crazy people. Believe what they say and remove yourself from them and them from you. Great on getting the restraining order. Always require they are seeking professional help and taking their meds or they get to have no contact with you and yours. Crazy people really are crazy and are capable of anything and everything even the unspeakable and the horrible.

Life has its ups and downs its ebbs and flows. Laugh often and pray much. It really helps me and I know it can help you too. I'll be praying for you and your family too.

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J.F.

answers from Las Vegas on

Hi S. H.,

Of course you are remembered! And missed! Although I'm not on here as often, I've been thinking about you and wondering how you are.

Sorry to hear that there are still some issues going on with family and hope that things will work themselves out for you in the new year.

Sending prayers and good thoughts your way.

J. F.

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P.M.

answers from Portland on

Haven't been on much myself, but it has been forever since I've seen a post from you! I'm glad you're still around.

Sorry about all the crazy stuff you're dealing with. I have a couple of family members who would fit right in. I hope all settles down soon, and that you can hang onto your sanity until it does.

Best wishes, Susan.

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C.B.

answers from San Francisco on

Thanks for checking in - we missed you. The old saying "you can pick your friends, but not your family" comes to mind. Hoping everything works out for the best.

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