No one should ever threaten you, especially when it comes to your own child. Get out now and don't listen to his BS. Document everything he has said though! In Ohio, a mother automatically gets primary custody (regardless of the situation--even if you are not employed, it does not matter, you get custody). Since you are not married, he would have to take YOU to court just to get visitation. Also, child support and visitation are two seperate issues, so don't be worried about that. Just because he has to pay support, DOES NOT give him ANY rights at all, just remember that. Sorry, but if anyone ever threatened me with my daughter, I would run, not walk. You can do it. I am doing it right now and, no, it isn't easy, but it's well worth it! I, and most importantly my daughter, are a 100 times happier. you don't want your daughter to grow up like this, so I would do what you need to do to leave.