I had my son there in 2008. It was ok. I too paid the $100 per night for the private room. At that time, I don't think they had their "pro baby" initiative yet so we did get pacis, baths were at the nursery. After I delivered my son, he didn't come back into my room for 4-5 hours later. I don't remember the meals and whether or not my husband got a meal as well. I did remember being able to hear everything going on. I could hear the baby next door crying all night and the nurses and people in the hallway.
In 2010, I had my daughter at Presby Plano. Much better experience. It's a newer hospital. There was no upcharge for a standard private room. Here, they have their pro baby-mama bonding. There wasn't a big thing for the paci, but they insisted on keeping the baby in the room with you all the time. The baby pretty much never left my side. The baby nurse did her first bath in the room a few hours after delivery. They have "dine on demand" there. I really liked that. It's like room service. You order off the menu whenever you are ready to eat. You can order whatever you want. They also give you vouchers for your husband so he can eat as well.
I just delivered my third child 2 weeks ago at Baylor Frisco (my doctor moved from presby plano to baylor frisco). This is also a brand new hospital and very nice and clean. Their nurses were the best out of the three hospitals. They were so nice and helpful. Baby stays with you as well. As for pacis- they have them but you have to sign whether or not you want to use them or not. I allowed it. They also have quiet time during the afternoons where they allow mom and baby to rest and try to not intrude in your room if not necessary. (plano had this well). I like this too. They don't have a dine on demand food service here. They just bring you and your husband a tray at 7, 12 and 6. I didn't get to pick what I wanted to eat.. they just brought it so it was always a surprise. Food was ok. They do give you a steak and lobster dinner the night before you leave the hospital. It was actually pretty tasty. Baby also gets a nice blanket that has Baylor Frisco embroided by it and Dad gets a scrub shirt with the baby's footprints on it. Just a few perks. The one thing that was kinda weird is that they have cameras in all the rooms. They say its so they can see you at night and know when you are awake so they don't have to come in a wake you up to check vitals etc. I'm not so fond of that. Oh... rooms are really nice and quiet. I could not hear anything going on outside my room. I kept asking the nurse if there were alot of patients here because I didn't hear much going on. They also have good snacks and coffee in their refreshment area.
That's a quick run down of my hospital experiences. good luck~!
oh and btw- Medical Center Plano has BEAUTIFUL postpartum upgraded suites! check out their website. It looks like an upscale hotel room. I'm not sure how much they cost though..