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Look A., for centuries women have rediculously fantasized about using their love, sex, money, children, etcetera to change a man. If his mom or guardian did not do the job of making him a good man to his fullest capacity, then there is nothing you can do. Do not try to raise a grown man. That's his mama's job. You have children of your own for that job. Realize that you have made a mistake and move on. I know it can be a harsh reality to call it quits, however, your priority is yourself and your children. Use this as a lession learned for any future relationship. Be aware of the real signs as you begin something new. Be honest with yourself and with what you see and feel. It is all about being kind to yourself.