Unless your car is still under warranty do NOT go to a dealer.
Despite what Hannah J says, there are "real" mechanics at non-dealer garages.
I know a handful of them that recently left a certain twin cities dealer because they were tired of getting paycuts while the cost of labor was going up, and the management was (still is) ripping off customers by selling services they didn't need.
My husband (the first one to quit and go to an independent shop) is fully ASE certified and can work on anything with wheels.
Yes, Hannah J, even Fords and Chevrolets are "computers on wheels", the newer they are.
That being said, if you take your car in to be serviced, dealer or not, make sure you do your homework first.
You don't want to be paying for any services you don't need, or may just not need at this time. Good thing car manuals have service schedules in them.
Unfortunately for you, all those things you listed are needed. You can definitely get an oil change somewhere cheaper, but VW bulbs can be a royal pain to remove and replace. The price of the wipers depends on the kind of wiper you have, and wipers are pretty easy to install on your own; mechanically inclined or not.
When it comes to the window motor, if you don't need the window to open, don't get the motor replaced.
Just be glad you don't drive an all-wheel-drive car and have a flat. If your tires weren't new enough you'd need to buy 4 new tires instead of 1!
Good Luck!