K.C.
Wow! To the people who answered this question with criticism toward J. what about the baby? Who cares about the moms and dads and their relationships. Is no one concerned about the statistics of smoking mothers. I can't believe that some of you people actually said that giving up smoking while pregnant can be worse than not giving it up. Maybe some people can go through life and pregnancy smoking and drinking and never have an unhealthy child or develop cancer of any kind but what if..... Science has already told us that smoking while pregnant can lead to low birth weight, life long health issues, and miscarriage. I know a thing or two about addiction and yes for some people it is a struggle to quit anything but she has a person growing inside her, depending on her for its life. Being a mother is the most selfless act there is I think we can all agree. That starts at the moment you find out you are pregnant. If it bothers J. to the point were she doesn't feel like she can be her friend then that is no reason to cut her down like you people have.