Hi B. ~
I'm an OB nurse, so can give you a little different angle on things :)
I work at Henry Ford Wyandotte Hospital, so of course that's my recommendation, but it's probably a little far for you.
I am contingent at Oakwood Hospital in Dearobrn. They have high-risk doctors and a NICU, if that is needed. You labor and deliver in one room, baby goes to the nursery at about an hour old, then you go to another room after recovery. Then you can have the baby pretty much whenever you want. The mother/baby rooms are all private, so no sharing a room (as of course the labor rooms!).
I've heard really good things about St. Joes in Ann Arbor & Providence. I know that Providence has an ABC area ... it's for low-risk patients that don't want as much interference. They have a labor tub, midwives, less invasive with fetal monitoring, medications, etc. So if you want a more natural childbirth, that's a great place (I wish they were closer to me, I'd work there in a minute!).
U of M is supposed to be great, especially for high-risk. But I don't really know a whole lot about them.
Garden City is smaller, haven't heard too many great things about them.
St. Mary's is smaller, but I have heard that patients love it. Not sure about a NICU or the rooms.
Hope that helps you some!
good luck!
D.