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So wait...she won't have accidents when she's pantsless but she will otherwise? Crazy. That sucks for you. ;) We're potty training right now too, my daughter is 3 next month so I waited longer, but something that helps us is the plastic pants. I was super nervous to leave the house too and I feel a bit more secure when she wears those. I just put them over the panties and they fit surprisingly well underneath her clothes. They don't bulge or anything even though they look kinda bulky by themselves. The down side is they are really hot. Every time she wears them she sweats and sometimes I mistake it for pee! So, I only used them the first few days when leaving the house and this past week at church, cuz that would have been one of my worst nightmares! ;) I got them from a friend but they are Gerber brand so I would guess you could find them at Babies R Us maybe?? Do what you have to do. I procrastinated until she's almost 3 and so far (it's been 8 days) things are going super awesome for us and panties, so I'm sure she'll get it!