H.H.
I also recently suffered a miscarriage after two completely uneventful pregnancies with my two boys (ages 8 and almost 6). I was 12 weeks and I had to have a D&C since my body was having trouble miscarrying by itself. I actually just passed my due date this past Tuesday. It was hard. It feels wrong somehow, you know, to think that there should have been a baby here right now. We were told after the miscarriage that I should wait to have one normal cycle before trying to again because otherwise, our chanced of miscarrying again were increased. I would ever want to increase their chances of a miscarriage. Your body is probably just trying to get itself sorted out and as much as you want to get pregnant right now, you probably would wish for a healthy pregnancy more. So, just be patient and let your body do its thing. Our bodies are truly a miracle and most of the time they know what they need. And that is not to take away from the fact that you have a right to feel bad about it. You have a right to be sad about losing the baby AND you have a right to be sad about not conceiving again quickly. Have you tried taking your basal body temperature? By charting your temperature, you may get some insight as to when your body is ovulating. Or you could always take it a step further and get an ovulation kit. OR you could just have fun trying until it happens. :)