hi dear. you didn't mention your age?
i only ask because could you be in menopause already? i started having all the symptoms at 43 (my mom at 38). but since i was taking the pill i didn't not realize that it was masking the fact that ... i was already in it!
that is, i was still having regular periods (because that's what the pill makes you do). but i also started having the killer migraines every month.
after 3 years of battling it i finally took myself off the pill, off the migraine meds, and off the other dumb meds like serafem that the doc said would make me feel better.
once i did that - voila - no more periods, no more migraines, i was "cured" because i found out i was post-menopausal. did blood work that confirmed it.
so now i'm 47 and haven't had my period in 1 1/2 years. unfortunately for you that means you might not be having any more babies naturally. please have your bloodwork done and see if your moving in that direction.
also remember, there are plenty of children right here in our own country literally "dying" to be adopted if you look in that direction. plese consider that before flying 7,000 miles away to take a child from somewhere else.
tx for listening.