My recommendation would be 5-6 HEALTHY small portion, low cal, low fat, low sugar, meals a day. Don't starve yourself or completely deprive yourself of anything (except fast food). And KNOW WHAT YOUR EATING, if you eat out anywhere there's a good chance you’re getting A LOT more than you realize. I don't believe in diet fads or gimmicks just eat healthy, exercise, and don't skip meals ESPECIALLY BREAKFAST! Also there's allot to be said for a positive attitude. Know you can lose weight, that your worth it, don't do it for anyone but yourself, and don't beat yourself up if you don't progress as quickly as you'd like, just take it as a sign that you need to do just a little more than your currently doing. Stick with it and you'll do fine. Oh, and don't think of it as a diet, just change your eating and exercising habits, a diet you can cheat on, if you change, you either do or don't.