A.W.
The first thing I would recommend is to contact FEAT (Families for Early Autism Treatment) at ###-###-#### or ____@____.com will send you a Parent's Handbook that will guide you step-by-step through these early months after your child's diagnosis. My son has had this diagnosis for over 5 years now, and I still refer to my FEAT handbook regularly (they send you an updated copy every year). There are fortunately many therapies available for treating autism spectrum disorders (which PDD-NOS is just another term for mild autism) but unfortunately most of them are not effective or of questionable effectiveness. FEAT will help you wade through the hundreds of people and companies and products that claim that they can cure your child, and they will direct you to the proven, scientifically based treatments that have been demonstrated over time to help our kids. That way you don't waste time and money doing treatments that are not likely to help your little boy. I personally can HIGHLY recommend Bridges Behavioral Language Systems if you are in the greater Sacramento area; they have brought my son from "severely autistic" at 2 and 3 years old, to now just barely meeting the criteria for autism at all (on the assessments that the school district, regional center, and our developmental pediatrician do on our son every 1 or 2 years, he is only one point away from being in the "non-autistic" range now, where as before Bridges he was in the "severely autistic" range). Their website is www.bridgesBLS.com . I will warn you though, that the regional center will probably not pay for more than 20 hours per week of therapy, and your son will most likely need 40 per week. You can get free therapy from the school district, but if you look at the outcomes over time for autistic kids in school district preschools versus 30-40 hour per week ABA therapy in-home, there is no question that the ABA therapy is vastly superior to what the school districts are able to offer our children. A full-time therapy program is also much more time-intensive on your part than a school district program, but if you are at all able to do it even for a year or two, it will improve the quality of your family's life and your son's future unimaginably. We live in a small house and drive old cars and do not go on vacations and my husband works two jobs (one full-time, another part-time) in order to pay for ABA therapy 40 hours a week (the regional center funds half) and it is worth every single penny we have spent over the last 5 years, a hundred times over. Finally, I would highly recommend the book "Facing Autism: Giving Parents Reasons for Hope and Guidance for Help" by Lynn Hamilton, and the website www.aboutautismlaw.com . Please feel free to email me if I can help in any way.
Best wishes,
A.