Was on BCP for 10 years, decided to start trying and about 3 years into that saw a specialist. Had laproscopy surgery to check everything (polyps and endometriosis removed) and found I have a heart shaped uterus. Tried another 3 years. Found a new doctor, diagnosed with PCOS and put on metformin. Three months later, pregnant with our first miracle baby!
Had a c-section and told not to try again until 9 months post-op. Then we tried again for a year while I was on metformin. Then bingo, pregnant again with miracle baby #2 (due next month).
You found what it takes to make one baby, now be patient and let your body do what it has to do. I know, not easy!!!! :) It took me longer with baby #2. I also realized after tracking my cycles that I only ovulate on my left side and not my right. Both babies lived on only my left side of my womb (due to ovulation on the left side and the piece of skin that separates my uterus into 2 sections). I also got pregnant with both when I stopped trying to get pregnant. We were 3/4 finished with the adoption process with the first and I started a full time job (that I later quit) when I became pregnant with number 2.
It can happen, do what you are supposed to via doctor's orders and take your mind off it. Again, easier said than done. :) BEST WISHES!!!!