We are "allowed" to give two sh**s as to what our baby furniture looks like. J. because some of you don't care what your baby stuff looks like doesn't mean the rest of us want our stuff to look all hand-me-down and jacked up! Oh, and also, it IS home décor for at least a couple of years, or longer if you have another baby right after!
I have an entire matching set that was in perfect condition and I love it. Unfortunately, my 3-year-old went to town on the mesh also and tore it, and now I'm looking for an idea to fix it.
So, to answer your question, I am thinking of sewing an applique over my spot. Not J. an applique on one side, but both sides. I'm not sure yet how I will get the material off to do the sewing with my machine, but my husband is about to look and see if he can gently get it off. Here is a link to give you an idea of what I'm going to try. I will have to get creative to make sure whatever material I use blends nicely with the current theme and colors as much as possible.
See link below to get an idea of what I mean about adding an applique to the part of the mesh with holes:
http://www.totsnteenscoltd.com/uploads/playpens.jpg
I know this post is a few years old, but obviously if I found my way here, someone else who needs help may, too. Therefore, I wish anyone else who cares what their baby stuff looks like the best of luck! I know how bad it sucks to spend your hard earned money J. to have what you bought tore up (I have five sons...so I really, really know), but J. remember, there is always a way to fix something! I guess with all my boys I've J. become very creative at fixing things ;)