K.H.
Kim,
This book is the best thing since sliced bread to me. Although it is not about activities per say, it is about growing with emotions while doing those activities you embark upon...I'll call it emotional fitness. The book is called: Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child by Gottman. THe best parenting book I've read so far. YOu can order it through their website directly www.gottman.com. Thanks for posting this; I am enjoying the other suggestions.
K.