http://ngm.nationalgeographic.com/2011/10/teenage-brains/...
This is a good article on Teenagers, by the National Geographic Magazine.
I hope she goes to a OB/GYN, and is on birth control or knows about it and protects herself etc. and that she fully knows about STD's/sexually transmitted diseases etc. And knows that you can still get STD's if you are on the pill. It is only protection against pregnancy.
And, what the heck is her Therapist doing? Her therapy does not seem to help?
So get another Therapist or a Psychiatrist. Only a Psychiatrist can prescribe meds.
And, what is your or your Husband's "relationship" with her, like? Do you have a rapport with her? You all obviously do not get along.
A kid no matter what age, needs at least ONE parent, they can trust and go to for any problems, good or bad.
If not, they have no one, at home... to depend, on, nor talk to. About their life.
Get her re-evaluated.
By a Professional.
GET her, re-evaluated.
And, the next time she sneaks out of the house, and/or is missing... maybe call the Cops?
What is the age laws in your State?
Who are her friends? Do you know that?
Does she get into trouble at school too?
What are her problems at school or with friends?
Do you know, about her life?
Probably not, because there is no relationship at home, with her parents???? And she is hard to reach....
So, get another professional to re-evaluate her, and/or put her into a program. And yes, this will cost money. But if you want to really help her from self-destructing and improving the family life, then you MUST spend the money to do so.