M.S.
I do a lot of ordering online and what I usually do if I find something that I want to buy, but don't like the crazy shipping is google to see if there are any discount codes out there for the site. There are lots of sites, blogs, and forums that share discount codes like free shipping, percentage off orders, etc. If you find a product, but don't find a code for the site, then google the product and you can usually find the cheapest price and a good discount someplace. Most of the time, you are not paying tax on items you buy online, so keep that in mind when evaluating whether or not shipping is worth paying.