B.M.
My boys were 2 and 4 when my daughter was born. At times it can be hectic at my house, but my 4 yr. old is a big help. I almost never go out without a double stroller. After the first couple months I bet you'll resume normal activities. The best suggestion I have for you is to give your boys an activity while you feed your new baby (when he/she is born). I have lots of baby clothes you are welcome to go through, girl and boy. Let me know if you ever want to get our kids together or swap stories or suggestions.