OMG! Embarrassed!

Updated on July 07, 2011
J.B. asks from Lanoka Harbor, NJ
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My husband called me at his job a few minutes ago. He is a top guy at his job and works closely with a lot of people. We were in conversation when I started to talk about how good he was in bed this morning and then he tells me im on speaker phone and he sounded sooo embarrassed. A lot of people heard little me talking about sex. ARGGHH. WHY THE SPEAKER PHONE.. WHY!!??? Im so embarrassed. Please.. any one go through something like this?

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T.N.

answers from Albany on

Well, from a man's point of view, how embarrassing can it be that the whole world knows he pleased his wife that workday morning? What would be REALLY embarrassing would be if you were publicly hammering him for NOT pleasing you, or worse remarking on how you DIDN'T want him this morning!

:)

So now they all know he has a loving marriage, how can that be a bad thing?!

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M.P.

answers from Sacramento on

LMAO ~ no worries - whoever was in the room is probably jealous wishing their wife spoke to them that way!!

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S.W.

answers from Minneapolis on

Oh, wow, I'm sure that is super embarrassing for you... But, your husband is now a hero at work!!

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S.B.

answers from San Francisco on

Morning sex! You totally rule the world....there is nothing you can do wrong now!

S.

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S.J.

answers from St. Louis on

You couldn't immediately tell you were on speaker phone? My husband can always tell immediately, as can I. As soon as I say "hello" he responds "take me off speaker." And I am in my private office alone when making the call. He simply hates it, understandably so.

Why on earth was your husband calling you from work with a room full of people and using speaker phone? I wouldn't be too embarrassed. He should be more embarrassed than you! I bet he learned a lesson.

At least his coworkers know you are a sexy wife!!!!

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

oh my!! only once!!! a long time ago...with my ex fiance - actually got caught in the office - thank God the door was locked!!

betcha the other people are jealous!!

YOU GO GIRL!! Don't let the spark die out of your marriage!!!

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C.W.

answers from Santa Barbara on

Don't even worry! He's the man and you are the hot mama!!

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E.C.

answers from San Francisco on

Sorry you had to go through this.
On the positive side
- your DH will probably remember from now on *not* to use speakerphone when he calls you from work
- if anyone in his office makes some comments about that conversation, it's probably b/c they're envious of how well your DH is, ahem, performing at home as well as doing a great job at work ;-)

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K.P.

answers from Seattle on

Hahaha! I think you need to put this on Molly's "need a drink moments" question!!

Sorry, that is very embarrassing. I guess next time you will be asking the hub if he has a private moment NOT on speaker phone! Lol ;)

Laugh it off, and have a drink like the rest of us girls today!

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S.H.

answers from Killeen on

One time I sent my hubby a ridiculously naughty text.....it was a funny and quite vivid scenario from a one of those romance novels a friend had given me....which I dont read.I was trying to make him laugh. He had let a female coworker borrow his phone to use some app and she said oh you got a text from your wife and my hubby told her to go ahead and read it outloud....usually I text things like can you pick milk up on your way home. So not only was I embarrassed but I looked cheesy as well.

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T.V.

answers from San Francisco on

This sounds unreal for a top guy....or the wife of a top guy. Why on earth would he call or take a call on speaker phone with a room full of people and not give a warning?

This doesn't seem to be a believable post.

Blessings....

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D.P.

answers from Pittsburgh on

I'm with Toni V. on this O....why would he use speaker phone for a personal call? And it take .5 seconds to PICK UP!

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B.W.

answers from Rochester on

I have to agree with Toni V....IF he is a TOP GUY, he should have a private office and have behavior suitable for a top guy (ie tact). Additionally, if you were talking to him a bit before segueing into naughty talk, one can only surmise that one of the LOT OF PEOPLE in the background made some noise or conversation to give away the speaker phone. Not a plausible situation, however in the event it is, he is unprofessional for using speaker phone with others around to hear and you should use common sense and save that conversation for personal time.

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C.C.

answers from San Francisco on

This brings to mind the time I was sitting in a very dull meeting at work, watching the CEO give a powerpoint presentation. Apparently he had forgotten to turn off his Outlook e-mail, because in the middle of his presentation, a new message alert popped up in the bottom right hand corner of the screen - you know, the kind where it shows the name of the sender and the first line or two of the message? It was from a woman, not his wife, and what we saw was, "Stud! See you tonight, all you need is your trenchcoat!" D'OH!!

So hey, at least your husband wasn't THAT guy! And at least you're married and have something you can brag about, right?

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E.P.

answers from New York on

Sorry you're embarassed. Whenever I'm talking to my husband while he's at work (or even on his cell) - I ALWAYS ask beforehand - am I on speaker? Just in case - I'd hate to embarass him too.
BTW, your hubby probably isn't as embarassed as you are. Most of the guys my husband works with WISH they'd get sex even once a month. Whenever a particular co-worker of my husband's complains about his lack of sex, my husband usually fibs a little and tells him - yeah, it's tough all around. He doesn't want the poor guy to know how often we enjoy each other.

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M.T.

answers from New York on

The speakerphone is for when you're too busy or too important to actually stop what you're doing and pick up the phone to speak to the other person. It's disrespectful of him to treat you in such an impersonal way, as if you're the secretary of a business associate. Personal phone calls don't take place on speakerphone. Your husband is the one who should be embarrasssed and needs a lesson on etiquette.

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L.M.

answers from Norfolk on

That's nothing! My husband once called me from work to inform me his CO (he's in the Navy) was changing the schedule arbitrarily, again, which was going to be more than a little aggravation and bother to me and my kids.... I said, "If ever given the opportunity, I owe him a punch in the f---ing throat!"

Apparently, the CO was standing right next to him at the time.

But he knows he's a jerk, no revelation there.

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M.R.

answers from Milwaukee on

My hubby accidentally forwarded my message to a girl that was after him when we were dating and she played it to the whole office and shop where I worked also. What a big B! He didn't see much wrong with it and I was so ticked!

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