I am going away on vacation for 2 weeks with the kiddos while hubby is out of town and want to keep things hot while we are separated. I do the usual stuff like leave notes for him and text him how sexy he is when we are apart but I was thinking this could be fun!!! I have sent him some pics in the past(never while pregnant!). What do you ladies do when apart from your men to make him anxious for your return? Do any of you send him r or x rated pics?
lol @ oneanddone-no you aren't! We haven't even left each other yet and already he and I can't wait to be reunited! I get weepy thinking of not seeing him for 2 weeks(I blame the hormones) so I am trying to make it fun when all I want to do is cry because I miss him already!
We are web savvy and our phones aren't connected to FB!
I wonder which pic would get him hotter-one of a homecooked meal while he is on his business trip...OR a cleavage shot? lol
Oh and I NEVER include my face in pics and our rule is to delete them as soon as you look at them!
He has a company phone and I have common sense. No way I am sending anything over the interweb I don't want the world to see, ya know?
Am I the only O. who doesn't have to "do" anything to make my husband anxious to reunite after a trip? ;)
No...but not because I don't want to or think "it's wrong"...
I have a terrible habit of txting the wrong person all the time...I am not modest but I don't think my dad (which is usually is my dad that gets txt meant for hubs)...would want to read that stuff!
I could just hear the phone call I get immediately..."MELONIE, I don't know how you...."
I did once, when my husband and I were across the country from each other for three months. I felt really stupid though, and didn't do it anymore. I don't know why, and I don't think that between two adults there is anything wrong with it. Just not for me.
I do have a GREAT story on that though. My cousin was maintaing a long distance relationship with his girlfriend. Apparently my cousin was in a hurry to get the pic out. Instead of getting a picture of his ummm... excited state, to his girlfriend, he posted it to Facebook. For all the world to see, including his mother AND her mother. Took him a while to figure out what he did, and even longer to figure out how to remove it. Ok, not so funny for him but HYSTERICAL for the rest of us. ;)
nope I have a teenage boy and telling him that the whole "sexting" thing is soo off limits would not fare well if we were doing it. Besides my "hubby" doesnt even know how to get the text on his phone.
Nope.
Just in case.
No - I could never do that! Someone would see them (like one of my kids!) But we have plenty of phone conversation that are fun enough...
Dawn
Never! His nurse sometimes uses his iPhone because he has medical programs on it. I'd never want her to see anything!
didn't read any replies but I'll be completely honest. Nope, never have and I don't think I ever will; the rare occasion when I've thought about it I felt completely embarrassed lol. Just thinking about hubby's face if he read a sext from me :oS
No I have not done any of that. My luck my kids would get a hold of one of the phones. Even if I tell them to leave our phones alone they still do and even open my texts. Not a good idea for us!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yes to all of the above. also, when he settles in to the hotel room for the night, he calls me. If I have him all worked up, we have phone sex. I do not want him running around with a bullet inthe chamber!! ;)
no pixs ever...but innuendo texts (sp) absolutely! :)
Oh, heavens.... I would never ever ever send pictures of my body to my husband over any electronic medium. It's way too easy for that stuff to get hacked...and it would mortify him. (he'd wonder where my brain had gone)
If I were gone, he'd be anxious for my return just because he'd be the one taking over my housekeeping and child-rearing responsibilities... :) Not sexy, but totally pragmatic.
If we are exchanging anything online that's *close* to sexy, it's very playful and coded as he shares an office. I have a friend who shares an office with her business partner. They use the same computer... she came across a file with pics of the latest girlfriend in all her glory, they'd been sent to his phone and he downloaded them. Idiot. My friend hadn't met the new girlfriend yet, so *that* was quite the introduction!
naughty texts all of the time. photos rarely, because i never like how they turn out. i don't do it to ake him anxious or keep things hot, i J. do it because at that moment i want to communicate to him what i'm thinking of=)
Not anymore.... Last time my son was like "hey dad you have a text on your phone..."
Luckily he was too young to understand message, and I've always been too chicken to send a pic.
No way, what if someone stole one of our phones? Or he accidentally sent it out? NO WAY!
yes but i make sure and delete them right away so if for some reason the kids get in my phone...well you get the picture.
welcome to fernley by the way. :)
Yes, I "sext" him quite often :) rarely pictures.
yep - sexting a lot. every once in awhile r rated pics....
Text, phone, or webcam. They all work great for when you're apart!
Both, all the time.
We own our company. I do the financial end from home, he does the sales, warehousing, negotiating and is on the road often.
If our texts were ever traced, someone's face would probablly turn red.
Oh yes! In fact, a couple months ago we were staying at a hotel for a small weekend getaway. Our son was asleep, he wasn't feeling well so we couldn't have sex. I went into the bathroom and took some very nice pictures for him ;)
He woke up to a nice surprise in his email account the next morning!!!
I sexted my ex all the time. His phone got stolen once. So what? The thief didn't know who I was so it didn't do me any harm for him to see the pix.
As long as you guys are phone and privacy savvy, no worries!! Keep the home fires burning, it is totally appropriate and HOT! I would do it!
Use a service like SKYPE so that it is not permanent. Remember, any photo you txt, email or post is in cyberspace for ever. My husband and I dated cross 3000 miles for almost a year. Thank god for phone sex because that was our only option!
I send naughty pics modeling new Victoria's secret purchases. I don't send x rated texts though
Maybe I should
I think texts that IMPLY something sexy are much more exciting than the ones that actually SHOW it :)
very rarely. but if your phone will read you your texts do it. (in private) all of the naughty words (well any words really but esp. the naughty ones) are super funny in computer speak.
lol hubby and I will sometimes send each other a text that says want to have phone sex. of course the other one always says yes. then silence and first one will say "ok you go first" and ummm no on the photos lol
Oh my goodness yes, yes, yes! My hubs gets pics & once in a blue moon even a short video (none of which ever includes my face either). Dirty sexting is a regular occurrence for us, like as in several times a week.
For us, this isn't something that has to wait for him to be gone at all, it's part of our regular sex life. We both enjoy it, they are our personal cell phones, we're consenting, married adults & not inhibited with each other at all.
With all of that being said, my husband is also a Reservist in the Air Force so we have had at least our share of long-term deployments over the years. In those instances, we keep the sex talk to a minimum for the most part because it's difficult for both of us to be apart for any length of time really, let alone months on end. In those times it's always much more along the lines of "I wish I could just lay next to you & feel you breathing" instead of something more randy. ;)
